the bright family: havan

Showing posts with label havan. Show all posts

Friday, January 6, 2012

Well, I was 24 weeks pregnant in this picture. This baby is FOR SURE living in a mansion. I told Jim that I wanted a "belly picture" of me...so while he was taking a picture of me.....

This is what our child was doing....LOL

It's ok to reach out to us. You are not bothering us. It's ok if you can't. If you don't know what to say, "I'm so sorry you lost Ava" , with, or with out a hug, is all we need. It's ok if you say something and I start to cry. You didn't cause it. Death caused it. You didn't "remind" me of her death, because not a second goes by that I am not thinking of her. Aching for her. It's ok if you see us out and we are smiling and appear to be doing well. At that moment, we might be. Other moments we are doing so, absolutely, not well. It's ok if you said the wrong thing or didn't say the right thing because there is no wrong or right thing to say. There is no wrong or right way to BE when your child dies. There is no right way to do this. We'll figure it out together. Thank you for loving us!